I am reading a new book called, “Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less. It is one of those books that I will most likely break out at minimum once a year from now one. Just to go back and refresh myself on everything that was brought up. So far one of the major points is to stop trying to do everything. A person can make their highest contribution towards the things that really matter to them when they choose not to deal with everything else. Narrow your options to focus on what really matters.
How many people do you know that are trying to do too many things or focus on too much. They end up not getting anything done. When they do, if they were to put all their focus into what they truly cared about the outcome out have been so much better. I think of myself and my own life. How can I focus and narrow what I want to focus on at work and family life. I can not be everything to everybody. Nor would I want to be. I can honestly say that a handful of thing truly matter to me. Not clothes, fame, money or even success. Family, photography, traveling and being a good person. That is what truly matters to me. So I give myself permission to stop trying to pursue everything and just the things that truly matter to me.